This is a ghastly story about priestly abuse

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“There were certainly people that I knew and that McGrath knew who saw us in the lobby, clearly going downstairs (to a room),” he said.

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After sex, Vivian said McGrath would observe, “Anything that feels that good, couldn’t be bad” or, on occasion, “That was fine now, tell your mudder.”
“And then he’d laugh. I’ll never forget that,” Vivian said, adding the priest would also tell him they were doing what gay people do.
Despite the smokes, the liquor, occasional gifts and the time they spent together, Vivian said McGrath’s exploitation of him remained hidden in the guise of a family friend guiding a troubled teen.
“My parents were thrilled with his interest in me. They just thought it was great,” he says.
Vivian says he never lashed out at McGrath because he was too scared.
It was also made very clear that he couldn’t say anything because it would ruin both of their lives, he adds.