
I went to mass the morning of my birthday, June 19, where we celebrated the Sacred Heart of Jesus. I arrived early and had some time to recollect and I remembered the Psalm I chose as "my psalm" years ago because it so expressed my
debt to Jesus Christ.It goes like this:
I love the Lord, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications.
2Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.
3The sorrows of death compassed me, and the pains of hell gat hold upon me: I found trouble and sorrow.
4Then called I upon the name of the Lord; O Lord, I beseech thee, deliver my soul.
5Gracious is the Lord, and righteous; yea, our God is merciful.
6The Lord preserveth the simple: I was brought low, and he helped me.
7Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the Lord hath dealt bountifully with thee.
8For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling.
9I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living.
10I believed, therefore have I spoken: I was greatly afflicted:
11I said in my haste, All men are liars.
12What shall I render unto the Lord for all his benefits toward me?
13I will take the cup of salvation, and call upon the name of the Lord.
14I will pay my vows unto the Lord now in the presence of all his people.
15Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.
16O Lord, truly I am thy servant; I am thy servant, and the son of thine handmaid: thou hast loosed my bonds.
17I will offer to thee the sacrifice of thanksgiving, and will call upon the name of the Lord.
18I will pay my vows unto the Lord now in the presence of all his people,
19In the courts of the Lord’S house, in the midst of thee, O Jerusalem. Praise ye the Lord.
So before the Blessed Sacrament, all I could do is weep because I am so thankful and because I deserve none of the grace and love that He continually pours down on me.
Around three that afternoon, a dear friend sent me a Catholic electronic greeting card featuring the Sacred Heart and it quoted this from
Catholic and Loving It.Sacred Heart of Jesus
The central truth of the heart of Jesus is that God loves us with a human heart and a human love.
—Catholic and Loving It
Think about that for a moment. God's love is not some kind of impersonal force. Our names are carved in the palm of His hand. To Him, we are each individual, unique, special, and loved beyond our comprehension---yet still loved in a way that we can recognize as divinely human.
One of the readings at mass that day was this:
FOR this cause I bow my knees unto the Father, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man; that Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all saints, what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; and to know the love of Christ which passeth knowledge, that ye may be filled with all the fulness of God. Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory in the Church and in Christ Jesus, throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.
That is a beautiful passage to pray, inserting the name of whomever you wish to pray for at the "you" and the "ye" portions. And I pray this for my readers today. Even you, Jennifer Lynch, I pray this for you, too. You can put that in your file, okay? I genuinely wish you well. I pray you will have the wisdom, the strength and the courage to do the right thing.
I pray for another Great Awakening of the Christian faith in North America. I pray this for Canada. I pray this for America, my two homelands. Imagine how much we would not need human rights commissions to monitor our respect for others if a critical mass abided in Christ and were filled with His love. Then how would we treat the stranger in our midst, the prisoner, the unborn child, the frail elderly, the disabled, the person of another race or religion?
Remember, God's love is not a mushy, spoiling and corrupting love that let's you get away with anything. He is a Father and He can be stern and correcting. I used to lament that I never had anything that I wanted---the boyfriend I wanted at the time, the job I wanted so desperately---whatever, and while other people were allowed things, I seemed to have a strange hedge about me. Unless I was putting God first, nothing in my life worked out. Did I ever suffer! I would look around with quasi-envy at how everyone else seemed to be getting their way, but not me. I'd head off in my headstrong, rebellious direction and boom! I would experience God's chastisement. Yet at the same time, He protected me in circumstances that might have killed me.
Do you realize what kind of love it takes to risk correcting someone?
I think of the Father as so much wanting us to love Him back and yet even in the Church we walk around a lot of the time with stony faces and cold hearts, nursing this and that little grievance against someone, perhaps shaking our inner fist at the sky.
The Binks has this interesting Father's Day meditation:
We’re in the midst of endless hateful social engineering seeking to undercut and replace fathers in general and male in particular.
In the end, it’s all about fighting with THE Father. God the Father, maker of heaven and earth. His rule, his will, his Kingdom, his love and purpose. After all, these days we’re told that all human family and roles are social constructions, amenable to engineering and fiddling according to the powers of the experts. But what it– just if– it’s the other way around, and our earthly institutions are the reflections of a transcendent order which we express in our moral and social ordering.
That’s certainly the Judeo-Christian model– as St. Paul says in Ephesians 3:15, “For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named”– it’s a right-side up thing.
To those who will then bring up abusive, negligent, or deadbeat dads, that’s the dark side– the absence of a great and necessary good, for which Our Heavenly Father is also the answer, since he is faithfulness, love, and wills all good for his children. Earthly fatherhood is– and should be– an image of The Father.